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Explore our evidence-based insights on life’s big questions, transitions, and challenges for people across midlife and beyond, and those facing these themes ahead of schedule.

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Perfectionism and Burnout in High-Functioning Midlife Adults

High-functioning people are often the last to seek help, and the last anyone thinks needs it. But behind the productivity, the competence, and the decades of delivering, something else is frequently present: a relentless internal pressure that never quite quiets, a self-criticism that achievement never satisfies, and a tiredness that goes deeper than sleep will fix. This article is for the people who are doing well by every external measure, and who are quietly exhausted by the cost of it.

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Posttraumatic Stress Resurfacing Later in Life

Many people manage the effects of trauma successfully for decades, such as holding down jobs, raising families, building lives, only to find that something shifts in midlife or later. A retirement. A bereavement. A health diagnosis. A quieter life that leaves more room for what was once kept at bay. The return of old wounds in later life is more common than most people realise, less understood than it should be, and more treatable than many assume. This article explores why trauma resurfaces in the second half of life, and what helps.

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Anxiety That Won't Quit: Understanding Generalised Anxiety Disorder in Midlife and Later Life

"I've always been a worrier." It is one of the most common things people say in a first session, usually said lightly, and almost always as though it settles the matter. Sometimes it describes a temperament. Often it describes a treatable condition that has been carried, unnamed, for decades. This article explains what generalised anxiety disorder actually is, why it is so often missed after midlife, what tends to drive it in these decades, and what the research says helps.

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Living With Uncertainty: The Psychology of Climate Worry, Political Stress, and the News Cycle

Intolerance of uncertainty, not the bad news itself, is the psychological mechanism behind climate worry, political stress and compulsive news checking. Research shows eco-anger predicts better outcomes than eco-anxiety, collective action buffers distress better than individual action, and older adults show greater emotional resilience following extreme weather adversity than younger adults.

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Sleep, Mood, and Cognitive Vulnerability in Older Age

Ask most people in later life how they are sleeping and the answer is rarely straightforward. Too light. Waking at 3am. Taking an hour to drop off. Feeling unrested despite spending eight hours in bed. Running on less than you used to. This article explains what the research tells us about sleep in older age, how it changes, why those changes matter, and what the evidence says can help.

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Adjustment Disorders in Midlife and Beyond

Most people in midlife and older age have considerable coping skills built up over the years. And then something arrives with enough weight, such as a diagnosis, a redundancy, or a retirement that doesn't feel like relief, where usual strategies of keeping busy, talking to a friend, or giving it time, aren’t enough. What follows isn't always depression or anxiety, it's often something more specific. Adjustment disorder is one of the most common mental health presentations in midlife and later life, and one of the most undertreated.

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AI and Your Career: What Australian Midlife Workers Are Experiencing, and What Helps

Most Australian workers are already using AI at work. Many are finding it helpful. And some — particularly those in midlife, with deep expertise in roles that are changing rapidly — are also navigating something more personal: questions about identity, purpose, and what their professional future looks like. This article explores both sides of that picture, and what psychology can offer.

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Anxiety in the Second Half of Life: Health Anxiety and Existential Worry

Anxiety in midlife and later life often looks quite different. It might show up in the doctor’s waiting room and the 3am mind. It might show up as a persistent undercurrent beneath ordinary days; the sense that something is wrong, or will be, and that the window for doing something about it is narrowing. Anxiety in the second half of life is a significant clinical and wellbeing concern that responds well to evidence-based treatment; and one that too many people carry alone, for too long, without support.

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Subjective Cognitive Decline: When Memory Worries Become Anxiety

You sit down to tell someone a story and the name you need, whether it’s a person, a place, a film, it simply will not come. You walk into a room and forget why you went there. You read the same paragraph three times and feel the words sliding away before they settle. And somewhere underneath the ordinary frustration of these moments is a more persistent worry: Is this the beginning of something serious?

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Concerns About Dementia in Midlife: What’s Normal, What’s Not, and What You Can Do

You walk into a room and forget why you're there. A name won't come. And somewhere in the back of your mind: "is this how it starts?" Fear of dementia is one of the most common health concerns in midlife — and one of the least clearly addressed. This article explains what normal memory change actually looks like, when it's worth speaking to your GP, and what the research tells us you can do to protect your brain across the decades ahead.

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