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Explore our evidence-based insights on life’s big questions, transitions, and challenges for people across midlife and beyond, and those facing these themes ahead of schedule.

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Retirement and the Loss of Professional Identity

Nobody tells you that the hardest part of retirement might not be the finances, the routine, or the free time. It might be the moment you realise you don't quite know who you are without your work. For people whose professional life was central to their sense of self, such as their competence, their status, their daily purpose and social world, leaving retirement feeling less like freedom and more like loss. This article explores that experience honestly, and what the research says helps.

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How People Recover After a Grey Divorce

Separating later in life can feel disorienting, and it's natural to wonder how long the hard parts will last. This article explains what the research says about coping, financial impact, loneliness, and a realistic timeline for recovery after a grey divorce.

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Grey Divorce: The Psychology of Separation in Midlife and Later Life

More people are separating later in life than ever before, and it's changing family relationships in ways many people don't expect. This article explains why grey divorce is on the rise and what the research shows about its effect on ties with adult children and friends.

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Adult Children, Ageing Parents, and the Emotional Middle

Being an adult child with an ageing parent is one of the more emotionally complex positions in midlife. The research is clear that most people take on care not out of obligation, but because the relationship matters. It is also clear that the load tends to fall unevenly, often on daughters, often from a distance, and often without much acknowledgement of the toll it takes. This article draws on four peer-reviewed studies to explore the emotional reality of that position: what the evidence says about guilt, gender, relationship quality, and wellbeing, and when it might be time to talk to someone.

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Posttraumatic Stress Resurfacing Later in Life

Many people manage the effects of trauma successfully for decades, such as holding down jobs, raising families, building lives, only to find that something shifts in midlife or later. A retirement. A bereavement. A health diagnosis. A quieter life that leaves more room for what was once kept at bay. The return of old wounds in later life is more common than most people realise, less understood than it should be, and more treatable than many assume. This article explores why trauma resurfaces in the second half of life, and what helps.

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Anxiety That Won't Quit: Understanding Generalised Anxiety Disorder in Midlife and Later Life

"I've always been a worrier." It is one of the most common things people say in a first session, usually said lightly, and almost always as though it settles the matter. Sometimes it describes a temperament. Often it describes a treatable condition that has been carried, unnamed, for decades. This article explains what generalised anxiety disorder actually is, why it is so often missed after midlife, what tends to drive it in these decades, and what the research says helps.

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Living With Uncertainty: The Psychology of Climate Worry, Political Stress, and the News Cycle

Intolerance of uncertainty, not the bad news itself, is the psychological mechanism behind climate worry, political stress and compulsive news checking. Research shows eco-anger predicts better outcomes than eco-anxiety, collective action buffers distress better than individual action, and older adults show greater emotional resilience following extreme weather adversity than younger adults.

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