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Explore our evidence-based insights on life’s big questions, transitions, and challenges for people approaching midlife and beyond.
Online therapy in Australia: It stacks up for busy midlife & older age
See why online therapy in Australia delivers proven results for midlife and older adults — convenient, effective, and backed by real evidence.
Intensive Grandparenting: When helping Becomes a Health and Wellbeing Risk
Across Australia, grandparents are stepping up. With childcare costs at record highs and working parents stretched thin, many grandparents have moved well beyond the occasional Saturday babysit. Some are providing full-time or near-full-time care — managing school runs, meals, illnesses, school holidays, and everything in between (Baxter, 2022). This article explores the difference between enriching involvement and over-functioning — and what the research says about protecting your health and your relationships while staying connected.
Concerns About Dementia in Midlife: What’s Normal, What’s Not, and What You Can Do
You walk into a room and forget why you're there. A name won't come. And somewhere in the back of your mind: "is this how it starts?" Fear of dementia is one of the most common health concerns in midlife — and one of the least clearly addressed. This article explains what normal memory change actually looks like, when it's worth speaking to your GP, and what the research tells us you can do to protect your brain across the decades ahead.
Late-Life Depression: What It Looks Like, Why It’s Missed, and What Helps
Depression in later life is one of the most common and most missed mental health conditions in Australia. It often doesn't look like what most people picture when they think of depression, and that's why so many people in their 60s, 70s, and 80s are living with it unrecognised and unsupported. This article explains what late-life depression actually looks like, why it is so often overlooked, and what helps.
Beyond Teletherapy: How US tech is transforming mental wellness in later life, and what it means for Australians
Tech is changing fast, but what does that really mean for your mental health in midlife and beyond, here in Australia? In the United States, telehealth has moved from novelty to a normal part of everyday care for many older people. Now, the field is shifting again. AI-powered therapy tools, virtual reality environments, and new forms of tech-driven social connection, much of it emerging in California, are starting to reshape how people access and experience mental health and wellbeing support. Let’s look at some of the latest innovations, and what they might mean for us here in Australia.
Finding unexpected growth after life changing and traumatic events
Can something good really come from something so hard? The answer, backed by decades of research, is yes — though not in the way people expect. Posttraumatic growth isn't about feeling grateful for what happened. It's about the unexpected strength, meaning, and possibility that can emerge from the struggle. This article explains what the research shows — and what it might mean for you.
From Guilty Failure to Moral Courage: How Families Living With Dementia Find Growth After Traumatic Loss
There is a particular phrase that appears again and again in the accounts of family members who have moved a family member with dementia into a care home. Not anger, not relief — though both of those are present. The phrase is simpler, and harder: I feel like I've failed. For many families, this is where the story appears to end. But a growing body of research indicates it is where something else begins.
Climate anxiety in midlife and older age: Why it hits different — and what you can do
Climate change is no longer a distant concern. For many of us, it’s becoming a lived reality — seen in more frequent bushfires, heatwaves, and floods like those recently devastating the Mid North Coast of NSW — and this hits many in midlife or older age especially hard. In this article we explore why it hits different and what you can do.
The Grandparent's Edge: How to Stay Deeply Influential in Your Grandchildren's Lives
You've raised children, weathered life's biggest plot twists, and built a store of wisdom that no parenting app can replicate. So why can it feel like the rules have changed, and no one gave you the memo?
The Loneliness Few People Talk About: Building Belonging in the LGBTQIA+ Community at Midlife and Beyond
Loneliness is significantly more common among LGBTQIA+ individuals in midlife and older age than in the broader population, with rates approximately 30–49% higher than non-LGBTQIA+ peers, driven by the compounding effects of minority stress, historical marginalisation, weaker kinship ties, and exclusion from both queer and mainstream social spaces. Evidence identifies the quality and composition of social connection, particularly within LGBTQIA+-specific communities, as more protective than social quantity alone. Psychological support can also help address the internal barriers that chronic loneliness builds over time.