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Explore our evidence-based insights on life’s big questions, transitions, and challenges for people across midlife and beyond, and those facing these themes ahead of schedule.
Beyond Teletherapy: How US tech is transforming mental wellness in later life, and what it means for Australians
Tech is changing fast, but what does that really mean for your mental health in midlife and beyond, here in Australia? In the United States, telehealth has moved from novelty to a normal part of everyday care for many older people. Now, the field is shifting again. AI-powered therapy tools, virtual reality environments, and new forms of tech-driven social connection, much of it emerging in California, are starting to reshape how people access and experience mental health and wellbeing support. Let’s look at some of the latest innovations, and what they might mean for us here in Australia.
Finding unexpected growth after life changing and traumatic events
Can something good really come from something so hard? The answer, backed by decades of research, is yes — though not in the way people expect. Posttraumatic growth isn't about feeling grateful for what happened. It's about the unexpected strength, meaning, and possibility that can emerge from the struggle. This article explains what the research shows — and what it might mean for you.
From Guilty Failure to Moral Courage: How Families Living With Dementia Find Growth After Traumatic Loss
There is a particular phrase that appears again and again in the accounts of family members who have moved a family member with dementia into a care home. Not anger, not relief — though both of those are present. The phrase is simpler, and harder: I feel like I've failed. For many families, this is where the story appears to end. But a growing body of research indicates it is where something else begins.
Climate anxiety in midlife and older age: Why it hits different — and what you can do
Climate change is no longer a distant concern. For many of us, it’s becoming a lived reality — seen in more frequent bushfires, heatwaves, and floods like those recently devastating the Mid North Coast of NSW — and this hits many in midlife or older age especially hard. In this article we explore why it hits different and what you can do.
The Grandparent's Edge: How to Stay Deeply Influential in Your Grandchildren's Lives
You've raised children, weathered life's biggest plot twists, and built a store of wisdom that no parenting app can replicate. So why can it feel like the rules have changed, and no one gave you the memo?
The Loneliness Few People Talk About: Building Belonging in the LGBTQIA+ Community at Midlife and Beyond
Loneliness is significantly more common among LGBTQIA+ individuals in midlife and older age than in the broader population, with rates approximately 30–49% higher than non-LGBTQIA+ peers, driven by the compounding effects of minority stress, historical marginalisation, weaker kinship ties, and exclusion from both queer and mainstream social spaces. Evidence identifies the quality and composition of social connection, particularly within LGBTQIA+-specific communities, as more protective than social quantity alone. Psychological support can also help address the internal barriers that chronic loneliness builds over time.
Holding On While Letting Go: Trauma and Growth when Dementia Care moves to Residential Care
There is a moment many family carers describe in almost identical terms; a day that arrives with paperwork, practical necessity, and an ache that defies explanation. The day they hand over the care of someone they love to an unfamiliar system of aged care. For such families, the emotional meaning is rarely spoken about. Yet research suggests that within such painful experiences, something else is also possible — an unexpected capacity for growth.
When a Diagnosis Changes a Family: Shame, Hope, Intimacy, and Growth in Families Supporting a Member Living with Dementia
For many families, supporting a member living with dementia is marked by confusion, grief, and relational loss — as friends stop visiting and some family members withdraw in distress from the person at the centre of it all. Yet research indicates that this same experience, however unwelcome, can also become a turning point for unexpected growth, deeper intimacy, and new meaning in life.
When Did Everyone Become So Disconnected? Loneliness in Midlife and Beyond
There is a particular kind of loneliness that can settle in at midlife and beyond; not the sharp loneliness of sudden loss, but something quieter and harder to name. A sense that the connections you once took for granted have slowly shifted. This article is for anyone in midlife and beyond who has wondered why connection feels harder than it used to, and what may help.
Caring for Others While Caring for Yourself: What Older LGBTQIA+ Caregivers Need to Know
Older people in the LGBTQIA+ community who care for partners, friends, or chosen family face compounded challenges beyond standard caregiver stress — including discrimination in care settings, internalised stigma, and limited legal recognition of their caregiving relationships. Research identifies physical activity, community connection, personal mastery, and affirming social support as key protective factors for their psychological wellbeing.